Roles and responsibilities are pretty simple to define right?! I am responsible for the choices I make, for those who depend on me in any given role I hold. As a father (or mother) I’m responsible for the wellbeing of my Children, as a project manager I’d be responsible for the project as whole etc… These responsibilities are easy when generalizing but when broken down the grey areas appear.
What are my responsibilities?
In my job the powers that be know this, they even break it down into a 3-page dossier of my roles within my role and all the things I am responsible for, but even then, I pick up tasks that aren’t in my remit. The responsibility of fatherhood or motherhood is almost limitless; “keep them safe” and “teach them morals” are just two of many phrases that come to mind but again, break them down to detail and the grey areas appear. Put on top of that that, as any parent or even onlooker knows, each day can bring in a whole new subject/challenge/issue to the table and it’s your responsibility to meet the demands of fatherhood/motherhood.
As stated, I’m responsible for my self too. My choices impact every aspect of my life and there are countless fictional stories of how a seemingly simple choice has had profound impacts on the protagonist’s future. Sooooo…if I am responsible for my future by the choices I make but the choices I make have unknown outcomes, what is it I am deciding?
Actually, if the results are such an unknown entity then why the hell am I responsible? Ok, I am not talking about “shall I rob that bank as I need money to go out partying” or “I’m bored, lets do some heroine” because we can all pretty much (well most beforehand, hopefully more than most after the fact) agree these choices are dumbass as it doesn’t take a genius to work out they are bad life choices. I am talking about the small things, the things that move us that bit more forward to our goal!
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We all have goals, whether we work at them day in / day out or they feature as an ignored subliminal thought process that seem unreachable, they are there driving us each day. For those that work at them it is easy to get swamped with questions about what are the best practices?…which advice I should take on board?…does my opinion conflict with the norm? The battle is constant. Even when on top of my game the questions about my methods from my inner voice are relentless. This IS MY RESPONSIBILTY. I make these decisions, these are my goals, it is up to me!
What is my role?
So, make the decisions and it could all go wrong; due to chance, due to circumstance, due to plain luck. It could all go horribly wrong. That could be a sad and defeating thought but it really isn’t. I thought about it for a moment; I do something and there is a chance it could go either way, but if I don’t do something then I do not have the opportunity to either win or lose. That goal of mine just gets shifted back into my thoughts, the less I do the more it gets pushed away from my conscious. My role is easy; my role in my life is to keep going, like the Film subtitle of the comedy trio Lonely Island’s latest film “Popstar”, you just need to “Never stop never stopping”.